Tips for Setting Expectations with Family or Whoever Is Paying for Your Dress
Shopping for your wedding dress is one of the most exciting parts of the bridal journey, but before you step into a boutique, there’s an important conversation to have—the budget. Whether you’re paying for your gown yourself or a family member is contributing, discussing pricing upfront ensures a stress-free and enjoyable experience at your bridal appointment.
Here’s how to approach the conversation with confidence and clarity so you can focus on finding the one without financial surprises.
Why Setting a Budget Matters
Wedding dresses come in a wide range of price points, and setting a clear budget before your appointment helps in several ways:
✔️ Keeps you focused on gowns within your price range
✔️ Prevents emotional stress or awkward moments at checkout
✔️ Helps your stylist pull the best options for you
✔️ Ensures whoever is paying feels comfortable with the purchase
At Elizabeth Scott Bridal, we carry a curated selection of designer gowns at various price points, and we want every bride to feel confident in her choice—both emotionally and financially.
How to Start the Budget Conversation
If You’re Paying for Your Dress
If you’re covering the cost yourself, determine what you’re comfortable spending before booking your appointment. Consider:
💰 Your overall wedding budget—where does your dress fit in?
💳 Any financing or payment plan options available at the boutique
✨ Additional costs like alterations, accessories, or customizations
If Someone Else Is Paying
If a parent, grandparent, or other loved one is contributing, approach the conversation with appreciation and transparency. You might say:
💬 “I’m so grateful for your support in helping me find my dream dress! What price range should we aim for so we’re on the same page?”
This keeps the conversation open, respectful, and ensures no surprises when it’s time to check out.
Hidden Costs to Keep in Mind
Many brides don’t realize that the dress itself is just one part of the total cost. Make sure your budget accounts for:
👗 Alterations – Most wedding gowns need adjustments for the perfect fit, ranging from $300-$800+ depending on customizations.
👠 Accessories – Veils, shoes, jewelry, and undergarments can add a few hundred dollars.
🧼 Cleaning & Preservation – If you plan to keep your gown, professional cleaning and preservation can cost $200-$500.
Be Honest with Your Bridal Stylist
When you book your appointment at Elizabeth Scott Bridal, let us know your budget so we can pull the best gowns within your price range. We want you to feel confident and excited when you say “YES” to the dress—without any financial stress.
💡 Pro Tip: If you absolutely fall in love with a gown that’s slightly over budget, ask about sample sales, trunk shows, or flexible payment plans!
Final Thoughts: The Dress of Your Dreams, Without the Stress
Your wedding dress is an investment, but with clear communication and realistic expectations, finding “the one” can be a joyful and seamless experience.
💍 Ready to start the journey? Book your appointment at Elizabeth Scott Bridal today and let’s find your dream dress—at the perfect price!